ADVICE

People give advice whether you want it or not.  Here is one thing I promise you, the advice I'm about to give you, you will never forget. 

Don't ever let anyone dull your sparkle.

This means to never give your power over to someone else. That moment you give your power over to someone else is the moment that your sparkle begins to dull. 'Power' can mean many things, and you can define your power, that's not up to my discretion. 

If someone does end up dulling your sparkle, know that you can get it back. This is totally up to your discretion as well. The time it takes isn't what is important. What is important is that you do it, in whatever means possible. 

I listen to music, I surround myself by those that I love and that love me. I sing, I dance, I drink coffee, I drink wine ... I do, just as I am asking you to do. I do whatever it takes, by whatever means possible. It can take me anywhere from a few moments up to weeks to regain my sparkle, but I do it. That's the important part. The important part? You don't have to do it alone.